​Let it All Out? NOT!

Conventional psychology tells us that when we are upset or angry to “let it all out” or "get it off our chest".


The Bible, however, gives dramatically different advice. In fact, the wisest man in the Old Testament said, "A fool vents all his feelings, but a wise man holds them back"
(Proverbs 29:11).
Was Solomon suggesting that a wise man never reveals his feelings? Not at all. The wording indicates that the foolish man vents his feelings without considering their possible effect on others. The wise man, however, delays communicating his feelings until he considers the possible ramifications of his words.

Wise advice. Many of us have learned the hard way some of our biggest mistakes were made while speaking when angry or upset. How many times we have wished we could take those words back.

Jesus set the ideal example while being accused by the chief priests and elders. "He answered nothing” (Matt. 27:12). Talk about speech control! Not only could Jesus have easily humiliated His critics, He could have destroyed them with a word. Instead,  “He held His peace” (Matt. 26:63). 

Don't misunderstand; there are situations in which something NEEDS to be said. But before blurting out whatever comes to mind, we should take a breath and consider our words. Chances are, we will not feel the need to take them back.

“So then, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath”
(James 1:19).


Jesus FIRST!

Dennis

Uvalde Tragedy – Why?  
 
When bad things happen to innocent people, especially children, the number one question is “Why?” Another common question is, “Why did God allow it to happen?” The horrendous shooting at Robb Elementary School in Uvalde, Texas has raised these and other questions.  
 
There are at least four possible reasons behind such tragedies:  
 
1. The work of Satan (Read Job 1 to see how much grief he can bring in a single day).  
 
2. The fallen nature of the world (Unfortunate events are inevitably linked to a flawed world; see Luke 13:4ff - the Tower of Siloam).  
 
3. The malevolent actions of wicked people (See what Pilate did in Luke 13:1).  
 
4. The fact that God grants everyone free will, the choice to do right or wrong. (The only way to eliminate tragedies like the recent shooting is for God to remove our ability to choose and force us to do good.)  
 
We may never understand all the reasons that the alleged shooter decided to gun down 21 innocent people. But here are a few things we CAN know:  

• God didn’t cause the Uvalde shooting.  
• God didn’t look the other way and ignore the Uvalde shooting.  
• God saw the shooting, loathed the shooting, hurt deeply for the victims (and their  
  families), and will bring comfort and hope through His word and His servants.
   

We still mourn over the news of the shooting tragedy. So does God. “In all their affliction He was afflicted…" (Isa. 63:9)  


Keep praying for the families of the victims, along with the students, faculty and staff of Robb Elementary School. If any good can come out of this, God will make it happen. And He may use your prayers and support to do it.  


Jesus FIRST!  


Dennis  

​Fighting Temptation

We all face temptation; Satan makes sure of that. But God promises to provide help. "God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it"
(1 Cor. 10:13).

One weapon we can use against the devil's enticements is wisdom. Wisdom is available to every Christian who prays for it (James 1:5), and it can help us make the right choice when tempted.

When wisdom enters our hearts (minds), it helps us to steer clear of sinful things. Wisdom also helps us to avoid the tendency to “go along with the crowd” and do those things that displease God. Moreover, wisdom reminds us that giving into temptation might bring momentary pleasure, but always leads to long-term heartache and trouble.

Although resisting temptation is rarely easy, with God's help (and the wisdom He provides) we can definitely do better. It is also comforting to know that Jesus understands what we are going through, as He faced the same temptations – Heb. 4:15.

Have you prayed for wisdom lately?

Jesus FIRST!

Dennis

Thank God for Your Mother

Have you thanked God for your mother today? If not, you should.


Many of us were privileged and blessed to have been raised by God-fearing mothers. Mothers who not only taught us biblical principles, but demonstrated those principles in their daily lives. It goes without saying that many of us would not be Christians today if not for our mothers.

If you fail to mention your mother in your prayers, you’re forgetting to thank God for one of your greatest blessings. The following real life examples should remind us of how blessed we are to have Christian mothers:
 
 At this moment across our country, thousands of young children are neglected, hungry or even sick because their mothers lay passed out from drugs or alcohol. Thank God for your mother.

 Throughout the Ukraine hundreds of children cuddle together in fear and despair because their mothers were killed from a shell or bomb blast. Thank God for your mother.
 
 In nearby communities, scores of children are forced to fend for themselves because their mothers are partying at bars or nightclubs. Thank God for your mother.
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 At this moment, hundreds of mothers are making plans to sell their daughters to strangers in order to support their heroin or crack cocaine habit. Thank God for your mother.
 
When you pray tonight, PLEASE thank God for your mother!

"She watches over the ways of her household,
And does not eat the bread of idleness.
Her children rise up and call her blessed;
Her husband also, and he praises her:
Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing,
But a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised" (Proverbs 31:27, 28, 30)


Jesus FIRST!

Dennis

​Here’s Looking at Me

“Examine yourselves as to whether you are in the faith. Test yourselves. Do you not
know yourselves, that Jesus Christ is in you —unless indeed you are disqualified” (2 Cor. 13:5-6).

One of the hardest things for many people (including Christians) to do is look at themselves honestly. After all, most of us like to think that we are above average, somewhat better than others, and possess few faults. We seem to have an inborn defense mechanism that hinders us from being completely honest with ourselves.

Unfortunately, that makes spiritual growth more difficult. In the aforementioned scripture, the Apostle Paul commands us to examine ourselves. That means to take an objective look at our faith. Have you done that lately?

Paul goes on to say that we should test ourselves. How do we accomplish that? The most effective way is to give ourselves a spiritual challenge. Below are a few examples:
+Attend every service of the church for a month.
+Visit one sick or weak member each week for a month.
+Spend an extra 15 minutes daily reading God's word.
+Increasing our contribution by $5 weekly for a month.

Why is it important to examine and test ourselves? According to Paul, it is to keep us from being disqualified. It has been said that if we are not growing, we are declining. How tragic to be in a declining spiritual state when Jesus returns or when we leave this world.

Living an active, faithful, trusting, loving, Christian life will prevent us from being disqualified in the end. Every day we should look into God’s Word, then at at our own lives. That should tell us a lot.

Jesus FIRST!

Dennis

Time to Renew!


After a long, challenging winter, praise God that the spring season is in full swing! People are outside working in their yards, or doing spring cleaning in their homes. Trees, plants and flowers are green and growing more colorful by the day. God has allowed nature to renew itself once again.

This season should also bring to our minds thoughts of spiritual renewal - a time to grow in Christ and bring fruit for His kingdom.

When we obeyed the gospel and became Christians, we were instructed to put off the old man (person) and be renewed in the spirit of our minds (Ephesians 4:22-24). In addition, God intends that we grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ (2 Pet. 3:18).

Living as a Christian can be overwhelming at times, especially when combined with the temptations and stresses of everyday life. But Paul reminds us, “...we do not lose heart. Even though our outward man is perishing, yet the inward man is being renewed day by day.” (2 Corinthians 4:16).

Just as trees put out new leaves, birds build new nests and the grass is grows greener, we can enjoy spiritual renewal day by day!


"For lo, the winter is past, The rain is over and gone. The flowers appear on the earth; The time of singing has come, And the voice of the turtledove
Is heard in our land" (Song of Solomon 2:11-12).


Jesus FIRST!

Dennis

​Growing Conditions
(Revised, byJay Launius)

 
Years ago a friend gave my wife and me some saw tooth oak seedlings that he brought back
from Arkansas. We immediately set about planting them around our house.

One tree was planted in our back yard near where we burn accumulated brush once or twice a year. Another was planted in front near where an old railroad line used to run.


The tree planted out back, where the soil is rich with ashes and plant material, began to growing quickly. But the tree in the front, planted in the rocks and clay, didn't seem to grow at all.

After several years the tree in the back is nearly 35 feet tall, while the tree in the front is just over 10 feet, even though the trees were
planted on the same day.
 

Jesus told a a parable about different types of soil in Matthew 13. He explained that the potential growth of the seeds is dependent on the quality of the soil. Rich, healthy soil produces fruitful plants, while less desirable soil produces little or nothing.

Our spiritual growth is largely dependent upon our daily habits Are we feeding our souls daily with God’s word? Are we saturating our lives with perpetual prayer? Are we taking every opportunity to assemble with the saints in order to receive spiritual encouragement?

Or are we stunting our spiritual growth by neglect and over exposure to things of the world?

We all want to be spiritually strong and produce fruit for the kingdom of God. But it all depends on the type of soil we choose to be. Choose wisely, and you will be blessed!


Jesus FIRST!

Dennis

OBITUARY OF JESUS CHRIST  
   
Jesus of Nazareth, age 33, died Friday on Mount Calvary, also called Golgotha. Following a preliminary trial by Jewish leaders, He appeared before Governor Pilate for an official verdict and sentencing. Following unsuccessful attempts to release Jesus, Pilate eventually deferred to the Jews and sentenced Jesus to death by crucifixion.
   
Prior to reaching Golgotha – “place of a skull", Jesus was subjected to extraordinary physical and verbal abuse. However, He never resisted and was generally silent. Even after being nailed to a cross, He displayed mercy instead of malice towards those responsible for His horrendous fate.
   
Jesus lasted six hours, remarkable considering His depleted physical condition. He finally succumbed to apparent heart failure induced by physical trauma, loss of blood, shock and asphyxiation.
   
Jesus was born in Bethlehem, Judea. He was from the tribe of Judah, and a descendent of King David. He was the assumed son of Joseph*, a carpenter from Nazareth - and Mary. (*He insisted that God was His Father.) His mother, several brothers, sisters, and devoted followers survive him.
   
For the last three years of his life, Jesus was an itinerant preacher, promoting His kingdom and salvation for its citizens. It is reported that He healed thousands of diseased or crippled people. Some allege that He stilled storms and even walked on water. Reports have also circulated that He raised several people from the dead.
   
Following His death, Jesus' corpse was buried in a grave donated by Joseph of Arimathea. Because of rumored predictions that He would rise from His grave, Jewish leaders were authorized to make the grave secure. A large stone (to which the Roman seal was affixed) blocked the entrance, with soldiers guarding the area.
   
UPDATE - The third day following His death, Jesus tomb was found empty. No explanation has been determined, save for Jesus' claim that He would rise from the grave. His dosciples insist that He now resides in Heaven, and is preparing homes for His followers.
   
“...if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and receive you to Myself; that where I am, there you may be also” (John 14:3).  
   
Jesus FIRST!  
   
Dennis

Snakes in the Church?
(Revised, by Jay Launius, Maud church of Christ)

I recently noticed a meme on Facebook that said, “Not all snakes crawl – Some sit in
church.” I was initially shocked that someone would say that about some people in the church. But after some consideration, it occurred to me that the statement is true of all churches.


For example, some people in the church are not exactly honest, others are habitual drinkers, some harbor grudges, and others routinely use profanity or practice some other ungodly habit.


This is not unique to current day churches. There are many examples of such people in the New Testament. Just read the book of 1st Corinthians. Moreover, Paul wrote that, “Demas has forsaken me,  having loved this present world.” (2 Tim. 4:10). Then there was Diotrephes, who loved to have superiority among the brethren and throw people out of the church. (3 John 9-10). Timothy was warned of liars and hypocrites in the church (1 Tim. 4:1-3). Many additional examples could be cited.

Yes, there have always been snakes in the church. So, should we eliminate the snakes? By no means; the church may be the best place for them. In Mark 2:15-17, Jesus went to Levi’s house for a meal, and the other guests included tax collectors and sinners. Jesus was criticized by Jewish leaders for socializing with such people. He answered by saying, “Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick. I did not come to call the righteous, but sinners, to repentance.”

Some Christians have the mistaken idea that the Lord's church is to be filled with perfect people. If this is true, not one of us can be a part of the church. All of us still make mistakes, and it is only by the grace of God that we have the privilege of being in His family.

Although some people in the church are less perfect than others, that is right where they need to be, including me.

Jesus FIRST!

Dennis

Are We Searching?  
   
It was a beautiful day for the annual fall bazaar in Delmar Springs CA. The streets were full of people visiting the plethora of craft merchants in town. Jennifer Crowley had taken David, her six-year-old, to the bazaar with her.  
   
As they walked down the street hand-in-hand, Jennifer met a friend, and the two struck  
up a conversation. While they were talking, several people suddenly rushed by, breaking Jennifer’s grip on David’s hand. Afterwards, Jennifer looked down, but David had disappeared.  
   
She anxiously scanned the crowd, but no David. Trying to stifle panic, Jennifer ran through the crowd, her eyes darting back and forth for a glimpse of her son. After 10 minutes, she came upon a deputy sheriff, told him what had happened and he joined in the search. After 45 minutes, David was still nowhere to be found.  
   
Jennifer was now in full panic and began sobbing. Scanning the crowd again, she froze as she looked toward the courthouse steps. There on the top step sat little David, watching the sea of  
people below. Jennifer quickly ran up the steps, picked up her little boy and held him tighter than ever. “Momma, why are you crying?” David asked. “Because I found you!” she replied with a tearful smile.  
   
In Luke 15, Jesus talked about three lost things - a sheep, a coin and a son. In each story, the one who had lost something was genuinely concerned over the loss. The man who lost the sheep left the other sheep to search, the woman who lost the coin cleaned her house to search, and the father of the lost son never stopped watching for his son to return.
   
When a Christian wanders from the fold (James 5:19-20) we should become as frantic as Jennifer did when David disappeared. Too often, however, are too busy to notice. God, however, intends for us to launch an immediate search for wayward souls. We need to pray for, and seek out, those who have "disappeared" from our church family.  
   
Remember, “there is joy in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.” Luke 15:10.  
   
Jesus FIRST!  
   
Dennis